Those of us who deal with mental illness often want to give a swift kick to the groinal region of the person who has just offered up such "wise words."
The truth is, that while there may be nuggets of truth in what they're saying, their timing sucks.
The truth is that sometimes you can't see through to the other side, when everything will be better. Often this is because that "better time" hasn't shown its face in weeks, months or even years.
The truth is we just feel like I pile of steamy, ooey gooey shit and words often aren't enough to snap us out of it.
Currently I'm on the swings at the parkette: for a couple days I'll be up, and then for a few days I'll be down. Guess where I am tonight.
You just feel like you're putting in time, like you're watching the world pass you by and you're just watching it from a café window.
- Suggestions: Realize that millions of Canadians and others around the world deal with some form of mental illness. There's nothing to be ashamed of, you're not crazy.
- Seek professional help: It doesn't make you crazy if you seek professional help or go into the psych ward; it means you're smart enough to reach out and get some help. It IS out there.
- There's nothing wrong with taking medication for your illness. I take several.
- Try to have a core group of friends and/or family who you can pick up the phone and talk to. They are key.
You can feel better. But don't feel bad about feeling like shit either.
Mark Andrew Alward
- chronic depression with episodes of major depressive disorder
- mixed anxiety disorder, including general anxiety and OCD.
- bi-polar II